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May 10, 2010 Volume 5, Issue 2 May's Article: Bullies on a Virtual Playground - Sticks and Stones No Longer Needed Imagine arriving home to find your child beaten at the hands of a school yard bully. Cuts and bruises highlight the physical abuse inflicted just beyond the watchful eyes of school officials. Long before the bruises appeared, your child suffered a far more destructive form of abuse. Text messages, YouTube videos and a foray of abusive posts on MySpace broke your child's confidence long before the bully's sticks and stones ever did. Once viewed as harmless teasing, cyberbullying (bullying through the use of electronic devices) now accounts for the majority of abusive behavior among teens. Taunts and threats formerly confined to written notes and conversations in the halls now flows freely from one cell phone to the next before finding their way online and into a chatroom or onto a MySpace page. Nationwide, two-thirds of teens have had "mean, threatening or embarrassing things said about them online," according to a survey commissioned by Fight Crime; Invest in Kids, a national nonprofit organization of law enforcement, The survey results revealed another, equally startling finding. The majority of cyberbullying cases are never reported. When asked about their reluctance to report bullying, teens shared their fear of losing internet access or their cell phones as a possible consequence if their parents became aware of the abuse. "Being bullied is not just an unpleasant rite of passage through childhood," said Duane Alexander, M.D., director of the NICHD. "It's a public health problem that merits attention. People who were bullied as children are more likely to suffer from depression and low self esteem, well into adulthood, and the bullies themselves are more likely to engage in criminal behavior later in life." Left unchecked, online abuse can quickly escalate to abuse in the off-line world. The tragic suicide of 13-year-old, Megan Meier, who took her own life after continued online abuse, highlights the devastating effect that cyberbullying can have on the teenage psyche. As a result of high profile cases like Megan's and our nation's grief in response to the Columbine massacre, many states have enacted new legislation to extend the scope of anti-bullying policies to include cyberbullying behavior. Although California amended their anti-bullying legislation in 2003 with the passing of Senate Bill 719 (Bullying Prevention for School Safety and Crime Reduction Act), the state still falls short in their attempt to define bullying and harassment as well as failing to include legal protection for school districts who comply with the new policy. Support may not be far away. The recent addition of Senate Bill 86 would extend a school's ability to suspend or recommend expulsion for students who engage in bullying or cyberbullying. Currently the bill sits among state assembly members after passing a senate vote. As more states begin adopting antibullying policies, parents and teachers could see some relief from what has become a national epidemic among the teen population. The absence of legal muscle has given rise to watch dog sites like the Bully Police org) and Wired Safety (www.wiredsafety.org) who track bullying incidents and offer parents resources for identifying and reporting abuse. While parents and teachers can partner to monitor the structured parts of a child's day, most kids face feel the effects of cyberbullying in the afterschool hours when adult supervision is at a minimum. Looking for signs of online abuse takes a keen eye. With the growing gap in internet awareness between teens and parents, it's a rare parent that can decipher their child's online activity. Reviewing online resources and attending parent education presentations will help to bridge the gap and raise the level of awareness needed to identify and report abusive behavior. Action steps for parents 1. Share observations. Sharing statements like, "You seem sad today" or "This seems like a rough week for you" may open the door to a conversation with your child. 2. Investigate. Outside of weekday mornings and evenings, a parent's time with a child is often limited to a few quick phone calls and weekend activities. Sharing a conversation with adults who see your child on a regular weekly basis fills in the gaps of what you might be missing. Connecting with teachers, coaches, and mentors can be an invaluable source of information about a child's life. If concerns arise about your child's behavior, turn to this group of adults for insight. 3. Make contact. A casual argument between friends doesn't call for a heated visit to the school's front office; however, when arguments turn physical or include verbally abusive statements don't hesitate to schedule an appointment with the school counselor. Bring the evidence you have from your observations as well as any conversations with adults who regularly interact with your child. 4. Avoid the Papparazzi. Coach your child to stay clear of impromptu cell phone camera shots. An innocent shot, snapped quickly between classes can eventually find its way into a bully's hands. 5. Report it. The moment you become aware of a threatening email, or see anything online referencing your child in a negative way, report it to school administrators and law enforcement officials. Collect any abuse communication (emails, instant messages or text messages) that could be used to document bullying behavior. Bringing bullying to an end takes a team effort. Schools and law enforcement agencies have risen to meet the challenge of keeping kids safe, but the brunt of the burden still falls on the shoulders of victims and their families. Through a continued effort to identify and report bullying incidents, teens regain self confidence and move toward a happy and healthy future. ** Additional reading on the topic of bullying: Teen Cyberbullying Investigated: Where do your Rights end and Consequences begin by Judge Tom Jacobs Odd Girl Speaks Out: Girls Write about Bullies, Cliques, Popularity, and Jealousy Half Day on December 12thOn Wednesday, December 12, 2012, students of Eufaula City Schools will be
dismissed at 11:30 a.m. Breakfast and lunch will be served on December
12th, and buses will run the normal routes for this early dismissal.
Extended day and 21st century activities are cancelled.
All staff members will be involved in professional development training
for the duration of the day.
School will resume on Thursday, December 13th, as usual. Students will be
dismissed on Thursday, December 20th, at regular time for Christmas
Holidays.
Thank you for your continued support of our staff as we work to
improve the quality of classroom instruction. The window of time for
this half day of Professional Development is small. It would be a
tremendous benefit to our staff if students are picked up as soon as
possible after the 11:30 bell so staff can make full use of this
opportunity that has been approved by the State Department of Education. AMMS Vision
Eufaula City CalendarEqual Opportunity EmploymentIt is the official policy of Eufaula City Schools that no persons will, on the grounds of race, color, disability, sex, religion, national origin, age, or creed, be excluded from participation in, be denied benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any program, activity or employment. Faculty DirectoryParent InformationPrincipal's letters of attestation regrading
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